What Message Are You Sending?

Image of Barack Obamas Inauguration From The Crowd On The Mall by Johno525

Image of Barack Obama's Inauguration From The Crowd On The Mall by Johno525

Like so many others across our country and around the world, I felt compelled Tuesday to watch the historical events taking place in Washington D.C.  Even here in rural, republican-leaning, central Ohio, many of my friends and coworkers couldn’t help but watch the spectacle as it was occurring live from the nation’s capital.

I was drawn to the inauguration by accident.  I knew the historical significance of the day and I was eager for our new president to get to work, but I felt no need to gawk at the pomp and circumstance that always accompanies a presidential inauguration.  However, by mid-morning there was an energy in the air that was palpable.  The excitement and anticipation of so many people focused on this one, milestone event created an effect that could be felt on our factory floor.  I felt happy, peaceful, and accepted.  I found myself smiling for no apparent reason.

I wondered if others could feel the energy I was feeling.  As an experiment, I walked the aisle past our basket makers.  Each time I noticed one with their head down, intent on weaving a basket, I would focus my attention on them and smile the energy I was feeling in their direction. 

Five times out of five, each person looked up from their work, immediately caught my gaze, and returned my smile.  No matter how far away I was, no matter what direction they were facing, each time I focused that positive energy on them, within two seconds their head turned in my direction and their eyes found mine.  Absolutely amazing.

 So I watched as much of the swearing-in ceremony as my schedule would allow, I listened to President Obama’s inauguration speech over NPR, I watched much of the parade and a few of the balls on CNN.  The themes of responsibility and accountability came through in the President’s speech, but there were many other messages that were sent during the day’s events.  The diversity and acceptance of the crowd on the mall, the anticipation of change, the inclusion of so many that have been traditionally marginalized, the hope for a brighter future and a better world. 

So many positive messages combined with an overwhelming majority of happy people (in spite of security and scheduling issues in Washington) created an emotional energy that can only be described as love.  It grew and multiplied through out the day and affected us all, as my experiment showed, whether we realized it or not.  Lord, may we as a human race experience more and more days like Tuesday, January 20, 2009.

A Different Message

Wednesday morning at work gave me a completely different experience.  I opened my e-mail and received the following message:

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I do my best to grow in my Christian faith each day.  Does the fact that I hadn’t “undoubtedly wondered” about any of the issues raised in this e-mail advertisement make me a “bad” Christian?  What about the next questions that crossed my mind: it was right to legislate the civil rights laws that made yesterday’s inauguration possible because that was an issue of justice, but is it right to legislate laws that address moral issues?  Didn’t we try that during prohibition?

This is a message of fear, plain and simple.  This advertisement is judgemental and discriminatory.  The good intentions of well-meaning people have been turned to other purposes by this message.

My question to Focus on the Family is this: if we could interview Jesus Christ today, which message would He be more likely to associate with, President Obama’s inauguration Tuesday or the advertisement above? 

What message are you sending?


On Leadership

Wed. Oct. 10 – The second US presidential debate was held last night.  Today Fox News and CNN both boast posts listing thousands of comments from people claiming McCain won or Obama won.

Did you watch the debate last night?  Do you have an opinion of who won?  Have you read the comments that the McCain and Obama supporters are leaving on the the linked posts above?

Go ahead, read some of the comments from both of the links.  We’ll wait…

Are We All Losing?

How can so many people fall into two such violently differing viewpoints on the candidates’ performances?  Does it really all come down to whether you’re red or blue, republican or democrat?  Where did all the anger and resentment these people are expressing come from?  Slander and accusations, rude language and personal attacks – has it always been this way?

The President of the United States is frequently called the “leader of the free world,” but what are the qualities of a good leader?  The sixth US president defined it this way:

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” — John Quincy Adams

Inspiring words that describe what may be our ideal of a good leader.  Ironic, isn’t it, that Adams’ achieved very little during his presidency due to the opposition he experienced from Andrew Jackson’s supporters in the congress of his day.  I imagine John Quincy Adams, if he could be brought back, would identify the partisan fighting in Washington as business as usual.

Be Careful What You Ask For, You Just Might Get It

Let me be honest with you: like the majority of Americans, I too have an opinion on which candidate would make the better president.  As I watched the debates last night, I cheered my candidate on.  Unfortunately, I also found myself deriding his opponent’s statements.  I smiled each time I felt my candidate “scored” a point.  I scoffed and occasionally cursed at the opponent’s claims.  I even found myself taking personal offense at some of his statements, as if they were directed at me.

Then, in a moment of clarity, I saw how I was behaving and I was ashamed.  I was allowing myself to get caught up in the prize-fight mentality of the campaign.  The comments from the linked posts above feel an awful lot like the fist fights that can break out in the crowds at such a boxing event.

Have we lost our perspective on the role of the president?  He has a very important job, but he doesn’t run the country all by himself.  He is the leader of the executive branch, and he has a big say in the direction that our country will take in the next four years, but he’s just one man.

The senators and congressmen in the legislative branch, and the lawyers and judges in the judicial branch, will also have a major impact on the next four years.  They could easily thwart every presidential initiative, if they so desire.  And let’s not forget that we’re just one country among many on this planet.  If the new president is going to be effective, his administration will have to partner with many different people who hold many differing opinions and perspectives.

So what do all the strong opinions and raw emotions surrounding this presidential campaign say about us, the US citizens?  I believe it all boils down to this: we’re trying to shirk our responsibilities.

We want someone to take charge and get us out of the all the messes we’ve allowed our country to get into.  We don’t want to have to pay attention to how the problems get fixed, just as long as the solutions don’t affect us personally. We’re looking for a savior to fix everything for us.

So the election has degraded into an all-or-nothing decision.  Us versus them, with no middle ground for compromise.  If your candidate wins, then we’re safe for four more years.  If not, then you know who the scapegoat will be for all the woes of our country.  Can anyone successfully lead in this sort of an environment?

What We Need Are Leaders

We have become complacent.  We’ve gotten lazy.  We’ve accepted the lie that we’re powerless.  It’s time for all of us to take back the responsibility we hold as US citizens.  It’s time for us to start leading ourselves again.

“The task of leadership is not to put greatness into people, but to elicit it, for the greatness is there already.” — John Buchan

“I start with the premise that the function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers.” — Ralph Nader

Once again, what is leadership?  It’s so hard to define, but we all can recognize it when we see it.  And we’re hungry for it.

First, let’s be clear: leadership starts with us.  Each of us, no matter how lowly we believe we are, has leadership responsibilities, to ourselves and to others.  Dee Hock, the founder and CEO emeritus of Visa International, sums up leadership this way:

“If you seek to lead, invest 50% of your time (attention) leading yourself – your own purpose, ethics, principles, motivation, conduct.  Invest 20% leading those with authority over you and 15% leading your peers.  Use the remainder to induce those you “work for” to understand and practice the theory.  If you don’t understand that you should be working for your mislabeled “subordinates,” then you know nothing of leadership.  You only know tyranny.  Lead yourself, lead your superiors, lead your peers, and free your people to do the same.  All else is trivial.” — Dee Hock

Personal leadership is critical to the success of our families, our businesses, our communities, and our country as a whole.

“I think leadership comes from integrity – that you do whatever you ask others to do. I think there are non-obvious ways to lead. Just by providing a good example as a parent, a friend, a neighbor makes it possible for other people to see better ways to do things. Leadership does not need to be a dramatic, fist in the air and trumpets blaring, activity.” — Scott Berkun

If we’re to be effective leaders, then we need to put the needs of others ahead of our own.

“Good leaders must first become good servants.” –Robert Greenleaf

As leaders, we need to remember that the ends do not justify the means.  The means and the ends are inseparable.  We can’t end terrorism through torture.  We won’t pay for our government’s historical deficit by cutting taxes.  Sacrifices are hard, but failure is much worse.

“The older I get, the less I listen to what people say and the more I look at what they do.” — Andrew Carnegie

“You don’t lead by pointing and telling people some place to go.  You lead by going to that place and making a case.” — Ken Kesey

Each of us has the ability to become better leaders.

“Leaders aren’t born they are made.  And they are made just like anything else, through hard work.  And that’s the price we’ll have to pay to achieve that goal, or any goal.” — Vince Lombardi

So I encourage each of you, study what the candidates have to say.  Don’t accept pat, party dogma for answers.  Challenge yourself to really listen to what each candidate is proposing.  Then, vote your convictions come November.

But remember, our job doesn’t end with that one vote.  Our government leaders have been selected by the people and they work for the people.  It’s our duty to monitor their performance, and to help them make the right decisions.  The lobbyists have a lot of money, and they’ve enjoyed a great deal of influence in Washington, but they’re no match to an electorate who have unleashed their potential as leaders.

If enough of us aspire to our higher potential, then perhaps we’ll find that we do get the kind of leaders that we all hope to find.

The true leader serves.  Serves people.  Serves their best interests, and in so doing will not always be popular, may not always impress.  But because true leaders are motivated by loving concern rather than a desire for personal glory, they are willing to pay the price.” — Eugene B. Habecker  The Other Side of Leadership

I’m Responsible For The Economic Crisis On Wall Street

The news out of Wall Street and Washington over the past week has been grim.  We’re on the verge of an economic meltdown.  Congress needs to pass a record $700 billion bailout package or we could see the US economy grind to a halt.

When the House of Representatives failed to pass their version of the bailout bill on Monday, the Dow Jone’s Industrial Average plunged 777 points, the most in history.  Some economists and politicians are even tossing around the word “depression” to describe the dire potential of our current situation.

How did we get here?  I’m not an economist, so I’ll spare you my half-baked explanations.  The Cliffnotes summary: mortgage-related investments from the sub-prime lending crisis that caused the collapse of several large financial institutions are now causing a credit crunch that threatens the entire US economy.

The talking heads on the TV have been holding a finger-pointing festival.  The Democrats are blaming the Republicans for excessive deregulation.  The Republicans are pointing right back at the Democratic majorities in the House and Senate.   Others are blaming greed on Wall Street, or corruption at the local banking levels during the real estate bubble before the sub-prime bust.

I’m To Blame

The truth is, I’m to blame for the current economic crisis.

No, I’m not a Wall Street investor, nor am I wealthy by any US financial definition.  In fact, I don’t care one bit if they raise the FDIC limit up from $100,000; I only need about 1% of the current limit to cover my savings.

That’s precisely why I’m to blame for the US economic woes: my lifestyle has caused this crisis.  I’m living beyond my means.  I’m not saving enough.  I have more house than I can afford.  I have too many cars in the driveway.

I complain about the price of gas, but I keep right on driving.  I worry about manufacturing jobs going overseas, but I demand the lowest prices at Walmart.  I have cell phones, computers, and multiple televisions with satellite feeds, and I call them all necessities.

I live pay check to pay check.  I make large purchases at 12 months-same-as-cash sales.  I’m too busy chasing the “American Dream” and keeping-up-with-the-Jones to worry about the consequences of my daily financial decisions.

Once or twice a month, I do the bills and balance the checkbook.  I feel anger, frustration, and fear.  I vow to do better, but I make no plans, I take no action.  And the next time that I feel too tired to cook dinner, I’ll take the family to the restaurant.

It’s Time To Make A Choice

We live in a land of plenty.  There is more than enough for all of us.

But I have been greedy.

The ends don’t justify the means.  My comfortable life has come at a great cost.  What I have somehow became more important than how I live.

I’ve done harm not only to our economy, but to my family, my fellow man, our nation, our environment, and our world.

We have an important national election coming up shortly.  You’re welcome to your opinion on who’s best suited to lead us through the issues we now face in our country, Obama or McCain.

But keep this in mind: you have the opportunity to vote for the President just once every four years.  You have the opportunity to vote daily on our collective future with your spending decisions.

As for me, I’ll be focusing on the more important campaign.

Feel free to hold me accountable.  I need all the help I can get.  I’ll be writing more in the future on the choices I’m making.  I’d appreciate any coaching or suggestions you care to offer.

Oh, and sorry about the mess I made.